Personally i think of it as a spectrum with normie (cuck themselves for sociality) on one extreme and otaku (cuck themselves for asociality) on the other. they define themselves against each other, but by their positions on the extreme are equally unstable, maybe they even join into the same region of neuroticism. opposite to that, the center of the spectrum is where the ria-juu are at. they are just comfortable with how they are, the most stable region