Humility confers the courage to speak from the heart.

exactly thats why we have a responsibility to speak with ease and comfort when possible even if its difficult sometime, cause else poeple will constantly ask themselves "are you angwy with me?"

>>2
Yeah that's part of it. I used to be really bad at that kind of openess and now I've figured out how to do it it's kind of addictive.

i have a hard time putting my feelings into words. most of what i feel i no longer regard as being worth the effort of converting into words. just vague unease, some disgust and lots of pity for all things. speaking is difficult. thinking clearly is already hard enough on its own, having to go through the effort of activating my vocal organs adds another layer of difficulty. silence is easy and comforting, for better or for worse.

>>1 something I've noticed is that people who are considerate speakers often speak from the perspective of the person they're talking to by switching titles and names to make it easier for the listener to follow
>>4 try learning a song (like a volks song) but in a different language by singing along, what this does is warm up your vocal cord and mouth muscles which makes it allot easier to speak faster and speak your mind.

Sometimes, I'll accept vanity in favor of apparent foolishness, and sometimes I'm too lazy to attempt to properly convey the words within me in a way that others will get (not because they're stupid either, but because I fucked it up and now I have to follow up my reply with another).
I feel pretty similar to >>4 if not as stongly.

Despite that, I have been making more of an attempt to be more open and talk more about things.

sometimes people want to stop existing and so they go nonverbal for some time, i think its neither good nor bad, its something that just happens to some people. I feel like everything would be a bit easier if people just respected your boundaries when you are not feeling ok

>>7
For sure I'm overgeneralising from some of my own experiences in the OP. There are plenty of respectable reasons to keep your mouth shut, but I'm sick of what I see as a rising culture of treating the fear of saying something dumb as more important than the joy of really being able to understand eachother.