>>1 Beauty is objectively subjective, but no one believes that here because all of the posters are either older incels, right-wingers, eugenicists, or zoomers who grew up inculcated into incel and lookism ideology due to the sheer impact of Instagram and TikTok on their culture and self-perception. This means they might as well be all of the things previously listed, even when they're not.
For all the people who find the set of traits you lack appealing, there will be another person with a different set of preferences. A clear example of this today is China or Japan—countries with preferences for beauty and personality that do not fit into our popular Western understanding whatsoever. This leads to many "ugly" men being significantly more successful there than here.
You don't have to be a relativist or even a hard subjectivist to acknowledge these discrepancies and realize that subjectivity will inevitably play a large role in determining your attraction(s). These attractions are not just subjective; they are mediated by a transient process—one that is influenced by the emotions we feel toward a particular individual, irrespective of how we initially felt about their physical attributes.
Also, are we just going to forget the widespread preference for smaller cocks in Ancient Greece? But I digress.
Another thing worth mentioning is the fact that expectations go backward as you get older. So even if you aren't successful now, it doesn't have to be that way for the rest of your life. Don't worry about it as much; focus on the things that matter most to you. Develop into a person that you feel comfortable with, if you ever hope to have anyone comfortable with you.
Beauty is objectively subjective, but no one believes that here because all of the posters are either older incels, right-wingers, eugenicists, or zoomers who grew up inculcated into incel and lookism ideology due to the sheer impact of Instagram and TikTok on their culture and self-perception. This means they might as well be all of the things previously listed, even when they're not.
For all the people who find the set of traits you lack appealing, there will be another person with a different set of preferences. A clear example of this today is China or Japan—countries with preferences for beauty and personality that do not fit into our popular Western understanding whatsoever. This leads to many "ugly" men being significantly more successful there than here.
You don't have to be a relativist or even a hard subjectivist to acknowledge these discrepancies and realize that subjectivity will inevitably play a large role in determining your attraction(s). These attractions are not just subjective; they are mediated by a transient process—one that is influenced by the emotions we feel toward a particular individual, irrespective of how we initially felt about their physical attributes.
Also, are we just going to forget the widespread preference for smaller cocks in Ancient Greece? But I digress.
Another thing worth mentioning is the fact that expectations go backward as you get older. So even if you aren't successful now, it doesn't have to be that way for the rest of your life. Don't worry about it as much; focus on the things that matter most to you. Develop into a person that you feel comfortable with, if you ever hope to have anyone comfortable with you.