Im starting to realise sex does not matter that much ig its more like a way to reestablish love you already have, am I wrong

like a sex obsessed person can only be expressing a lack love, cause love is a huge distraction in itself usually, a bit like how poeple that are addicts often lack fun from other places

sex is not really that important, unless you havent had sex in along time

i had sex once and hated it
im an avid sex hater today because of it

i love sex but i agree that we glorify it to an extreme extent

finally an intellectual person. i want sex to die for many reasons. mostly is just used for reproduction but am convinced its only a means for reproduction because humans haven't evolved far enough to not need it. very low vibrational shit if u ask me xd

sex with a loving partner and in a comfortable environment hits different

i've never had sex (though i nearly did once, i was asked for it by someone i thought i could love and i reacted poorly. i have not spoken a word to that someone since that day.), i have no interest in trying it and i'm convinced that i am not missing out. i find it disgusting. it is some base animal behaviour, and i can't help but see those who partake as just that which they are. my want for love is strong but i'm too scared of being sexually desired to seek it out. sex without love is commonplace, but love without sex seems impossible to find. the whole sexual liberation bullshit was a step backwards. it has not freed us of sex, it has only freed sex and allowed it to wreak havoc upon us. sex is more dangerous than guns.

>>8
lmao

>>8 kinda get your point but at the same time it being such a base need is what makes it so powerful. Just look at the most exreme cults and the way they used sex, its primitive and thats why it connects everyone. primitivism is not as bad as it sounds if you really think about it cause it just leads to a higher version of objectivity (look at the art of the new objectivity movement, or even teh whole of bauhaus art)

If sex is a way to reestablish love then it matters a lot

why do guys form their entire identity around this

>>1
Unless you're explicitly trying to have children, sex is pretty much just something fun to do together and there's a lot of people that don't have anything else in common, which is unfortunate.
>>4
you are cool

some you are describing sex with a loved one while I was criticizing an obsession for sex devoid of love

i despise casual sex to an extreme extent, people who enjoy casual sex should not be allowed to partake in democracy. unless its with an android

Reminder that 3d is pd

>>16
reminder that you are retarded

I agree. I will never have sex. It is not compatible with me. It is a dirty animalistic and selfish act.

>>18
why is selfishness bad if it does not harm anyone?

>>18
dirty, animalistic, and selfish? based

>>19
It often does harm others. It may lead to the transfer of an std or feelings of shame or guilt. Mostly though when I said selfish I was referencing child birth. There are too many humans on earth, and yet Indians, for example, will continue to selfishly breed the planet into the ground due to personal sexual gratification. Oh also harm that comes from unbridled sexual desire via rape. Pretty much what I am saying is if you have sex; Fuck you. Wizard life 4ever.

>>21
it is not only selfish but also inconsiderate for the pain of the unborn. childbirth is bad not only because of overpopulation (if anything, that'd be the lowest argument against it on my list. earth needs no saving, it can save itself.) but mainly because it forces someone to suffer when there never had to be a someone there to begin with. what i hate to see the most is how coveted of a commodity infants seem to be in the society around me. everyone wants to have babies, everyone congratulates endlessly those who have them, like an infant is a wholly good thing in and of itself. oftentimes couples will have babies almost casually, like it's no big deal, something that'll just work itself out. no consideration is ever shown for the pain that the infant has to go through, first simply from being born, and then from growing up, experiencing feelings and wasting away. that right there, is true evil. the worst genociders and torturers don't even come to the heel of reproducers in terms of ill will.

>>21
It MAY lead to a transfer of an STD? Obviously, if you have STDs you should not be having sex with people who do not have STDs. But that's not immoral because "all sex is immoral". It's immoral because giving people STDs is immoral.
You choose to have feelings of shame and guilt. You choose to react and respond to your surroundings in an unhealthy or a healthy way. Shame and guilt over a consensual activity that should otherwise be entirely positive for both people involved is a skill issue that can be changed. It's not an innate property of those people who experience it. And it's certainly not the other party's fault.

>>23
STD's and same were not the main point. The main point was childbirth and overpopulation.

>>24
I agree with you on childbirth and overpopulation. But sex doesn't necessarily have to lead to those things. You can use contraception, you can find a woman who is infertile, you can have same-sex relations, and so on.

>>21
Sex is the dance of trying to coordinate the animalistic and spiritual wills, in that even a thought or lapse of judgment by either individual makes such wills conflict, thereby damaging both individuals psychically and/or physically. In the case of a perfect coordination, which is impossible as humans are flawed, such acts only repair while not damaging both individuals and their potential offspring. For example, the incidence of sufferings and diseases caused by sex are highly correlated with how much of the acts prior to them were done to only satiate animalistic urges. Sex can be overall good and used primarily as a tool to increase love but often is not causing many issues we see especially today. It is understandable and surely wise to avoid it if you know you cannot handle the damage it can cause you and/or others. Good thing sex energy can be poured into productive endeavors besides procreation, namely anything involving effort and creativity.

>>26
i agree with you on so many levels. i would like to add that sex as a tool to increase love is incredibly outdated although certainly effective (as far as i can tell, as someone who's made efforts to avoid becoming involved). there are newer and far better ways of cementing preexisting love that rest in the domains of the arts, granted that you and the person you love have to be well aligned with one another, whereas sex is an easy but potentially damaging universal solution. i, for one, have begun creating something beautiful and useful for someone who holds a special place in my heart, in hopes that it (and i, by association) will put a genuine smile on that someone's face and bring long-lasting happiness into that someone's heart.

>>28
it is not 'outdated', perhaps a better phrasing is that sex is the most primal yet most powerful expression of love which will ever be possible.
more avenues exist now than ever for the expression of eros thanks to technological progress, which although more elegant and safe, fail to arrive at the same endpoint only possible with sex due to immutable human nature.
one must accept that sublimating desire means just that - that it must be fed to the vitality needed to pour into a creation, yet it also must be starved to avoid an overflow that siphons everything accumulated with it. transmutation of this energy is a very risky yet unavoidable discipline resemblant of the basal act.
what you create can still garner much appreciation, admiration, or even love; if that is how you wish to sublimate your romantic attraction to someone else the more power to you!

>>26
Very thoughtful response. I actually do agree with you that if performed correctly it can be a positive action. However sadly the very people in the world that are the most ill equiped to be performing this action are the ones that engage in it the most frequently.

i agree that sex is animalistic and primitive in nature, but lets not forget that most humans are animals after all. I find it so cringe that it has become mainstream to be academially educated on such topics, people have sex beacuse it feels good, people are also retarded and hurt themselves every day. If you want to just go around having sex with everyone then gg that tells me everything i need to know about you. i really liked the term >>26 used about sex energy, and honestly im going to keep reading up on this cheers my guy

>>15
what if I have an iphone?

nah dude sucking dick is hella cool.

you get to cuddle kissy kissy

touchy boobies

very awesome :3

>>31
Ha!

^1 Upvote

if you like fucking, its fun, but its not love.

sex with a person you love can be amazing, but obviously only if you like sex in the first place. cuddling can be just as good.

its important to some people but others don't care or are maybe even repulsed by it.

its fine either way. try to find partners who respect and share your feelings about it.

its really not much deeper than that.

this is the dumbest thread on this website

35

I have two questions for you then.
1) What is your 'body count'
2) How would you feel if you had not had breakfast this morning?

which yall like sucking more?
sucking dick or sucking balls
im a balls type girl myself :3

37

I like sucking female dick(the clitoris)

The question is, is having sex denpa?

the sex itsself maybe a little bit, the day after sex is very denpa