>>21 It MAY lead to a transfer of an STD? Obviously, if you have STDs you should not be having sex with people who do not have STDs. But that's not immoral because "all sex is immoral". It's immoral because giving people STDs is immoral. You choose to have feelings of shame and guilt. You choose to react and respond to your surroundings in an unhealthy or a healthy way. Shame and guilt over a consensual activity that should otherwise be entirely positive for both people involved is a skill issue that can be changed. It's not an innate property of those people who experience it. And it's certainly not the other party's fault.
It MAY lead to a transfer of an STD? Obviously, if you have STDs you should not be having sex with people who do not have STDs. But that's not immoral because "all sex is immoral". It's immoral because giving people STDs is immoral.
You choose to have feelings of shame and guilt. You choose to react and respond to your surroundings in an unhealthy or a healthy way. Shame and guilt over a consensual activity that should otherwise be entirely positive for both people involved is a skill issue that can be changed. It's not an innate property of those people who experience it. And it's certainly not the other party's fault.