my irl friends are literal normies does life get better do denpas just find eachother in the wild, or am i supposed to have maroon 5 type of friends till the end of time

where doth thou reside?

somewhere where people are not that cool i am afraid aka southern europe

Italiano?

there's not many of us to begin with and we tend to keep to ourselves/indoors. we're more on the internet than irl but there's not really a "place" to meet individual denpas online either. i feel similar op and have wondered what it'd be like be "irl" friends with other denpas.

denpas never befriend each other

you see a denpa in the wild you run

time to be real, i truly hate the fact that the internet as a culture is not really accepted anymore, look at the scene girls back in the 10s I NEED PEOPLE WHOSE WHOLE PERSONALITY IS THAT THEY DO STUFF ONLINE PLS

denpa sex

>>9
oxymoron

I need friends period

>>11
#metoo

>>10
clearly this man has not played Shizuku

Do something cool on your own is what I always say.

>>14
That's rough.

trial and error is the best way im afraid. so much chaff to pick through to find people you really resonate with

how are you even supposed to meet people irl after college, i just assume im going to kill myself when i get a fulltime job and lose my college friends

>>17
idk what kind of area youre in, but concerts, cafes and game stores seem like good spots to try and meet fellow weirdos. I know people these days are cagey and generally unwilling to talk to strangers, but trial and error is the only way to make it happen. you miss 100% of the shots you dont take, as they say

>>15
It's not rough, it's just called not being over-socialised.

i truly dislike my friends and this is not a joke, like whenever they talk about the things i find interesting (which happens pretty often cause we met in uni) i want t0 pierce my choclea and never hear anything ever again

>>20
but why

i find the way they live their lives to be really uninteresting, and they find solace in the fact that the way they live their life is generally speaking whats "to be expected" from people in their 20s. There have been countless times where we argue over the fact that stuff im doing is "not normal" and the thing im trying to tell them is that we can do better stuff than whats normal and or that what they think is normal souldnt dictate what other people can or cant do. some of them are argumentative over the fact above, and some others just show a faux acceptance which never goes over the "yeah man you can do whatever you want".

>>22
What do you want to do and what do they want to do exactly? Are the things that you want to do group activities or something which is better done alone?

i met my friend group through grindr and twitter and hardcore shows

>>23 truth be told, as people my friends are ok, they have some not so good parts to their character but thats normal imo. The part thats problematic is that we are not only friends, we are also essentially co workers because all of our uni projects are in groups, so i quite literally spend most of my week with them.