i find the way they live their lives to be really uninteresting, and they find solace in the fact that the way they live their life is generally speaking whats "to be expected" from people in their 20s. There have been countless times where we argue over the fact that stuff im doing is "not normal" and the thing im trying to tell them is that we can do better stuff than whats normal and or that what they think is normal souldnt dictate what other people can or cant do. some of them are argumentative over the fact above, and some others just show a faux acceptance which never goes over the "yeah man you can do whatever you want".