i’ve been really active on discord since 2016 and to be honest have never made any long term friends there. periodically i got kinda close with people, but idk. Honestly i believe that unless you are into spending LOTS of time with with people playing games, talking etc then you’re out of luck. Another tip is that you should never join “neet communities” they’re the cancer of the internet, most cool people i’ve met i did so in game community servers