Every time I try to satisfy my libido, I log into Grindr and can be fucked by several men in one day, when I'm on Tinder I have to use advanced social engineering just on the first date like it's an RPG with courtship and gifts (I am not talking about casual sex) to finally get a used mid stinky pussy. I am thinking of becoming an incel.

You cannot become an incel on purpose.The "in" in incel stands for involuntary.

>>1
You have to study the texts of the Sages. It is just the natural evolution of what existed before, but in our contemporary hellscape of online dating, where people exchange themselves as both stock and stockbroker -- one must be capable of slipping in and off an advanced state of asexuality, until the correct time arises.

Friend! The world itself has offered us many consolations, open your heart to them, do not waste your energies in the mirages of the dating hellscape, expend them somewhere better.

please leave this comfy space norman scum

Sex is such a boring and insipid topic to talk about endlessly. Imagine being so boring as a person that the only thing you can talk about is "Tinder" and "Grindr" when there is so many hobbies and interests you could fill the void with. Lol, lmao even.

>>4
No
>>5
I have interests in Przywara's analogia entis and Boulez's integral serialism, but this doesn't mean I should satisfy my biological needs by masturbating to Chinese cartoons.

>>2
Volcel, then
>>3
Great answer, thanks

>>6
That's beyond my point. All I'm saying is that you should've made a thread about music theory instead then. I'm tired of reading about sex and sexuality all the time, literally go to any other text box on the Internet and write there about sex there.

>>8
Maybe you should try having sex instead

If you need to use tinder (everyone knows it sucks) to have sex you're probably just ngmi ever, everyone knows straight dating apps are rigged against men, that's the whole point.

If you just want sex (you actually just wanted to complain about women) go hire a prostitute

>>10
sex is much better with someone you really love or have some kind of connection with

i wonder if the anon who made that thread about hiring prostitutes is still around, i have my qualms about the subject matter itself but i do agree it was quite unusual for the target audience here in an interesting way

>>8
If you're so tired of reading about sex, maybe don't click on threads literally titled "Normal Sex For Normal People?"
>>10

If you just want sex (you actually just wanted to complain about women) go hire a prostitute

loser mindset, i am not going to pay for what i can get for free

Sex is disgusting and inhuman.

>>14
disgusting? possibly. inhuman? no. it is by definition the most human thing a person can do

not to be too pedantic but considering that many other species have sex (some even do it for recreational reasons), I think it is a bit of a stretch to consider it to be definitionally the most human thing one could do. if I had to say what "the most" human thing one could do is, I would probably say something like technological innovation.
sure other species create tools but I'm not aware of any who have repeatedly extended their technology over relatively short time spans like humans have.

>>14
i am not a human at all, but sex is fun after you lose your virginity

>>16
>>15
Sex was disconnected from previous values and colonized by commodification capitalism bullshit. People don't even have sex anymore. They act out porn videos. That's why modern sex is barbaric. Its Reddit sex. Its acting out what was lost long ago. The disgusting and perverse mixing of bodily fluids for no reason whatsoever but pure reptilian release. Like a drug addiction. People are compelled to have sex the way ads compel us to buy worthless junk. Its all so lifeless and lacks any feeling.

>>18
Can't tell if this is a Bataille-maxxing intensity pilled reply, or a go-back to monkee black-pill, or something else entirely. Either way, I concur, especially with the acting out porn bit. Very much related with this contemporary attitude of seeing sex as just another "need" to be fulfilled like: "hunger" and "thirst", (and therefore transmuted into a commodity, just like the porn-videos it imitates).
Although I personally feel like "normie sex" (for lack of a better word) has always been regulated by some hellish symbolisms, substitutions, and sublimations since the genesis of the normie itself.

>>17
The real blackpill is when you realize drug addiction is actually good. Also, you're not talking about people who actually love each other. There is no reason to have sex outside of committed relationships.

>>19
I will pick something else entirely. I've never read Bataille. Idk about him. Worth it? I would say go backism is my thing. I am, was, no longer indigenous (actually this label makes no sense anymore). So I miss those old traditions. I miss the old language. But the water is already muddy. There's no going back. I salute the isolated tribes but even the rain that falls on them is polluted. Tradition is just a shiny image the TV gives me. Nobody is having sex because porn is more real than real. Who needs a body when you have a screen? In theory its perfect. Sex without sex. Try anything you like without having to do it, re enact it in the flesh if you like but your mind is thinking back to that video. Does normie sex even exist? Everything's so fragmented now. Queerness is fakery. Nobody is heterosexual anymore. We fuck images.

Result? Excarnation. Jesus was God made flesh (Christian lie, for God is manifest in all things). A fleshless world means no divinity. Protestants wanted to fuck so they cleaved soul from body so the mind could consume delights in cyberspace while the masturbating body is free of fornication and guilt. But they wound up creating a world of all virtual sex where there is no irl sex (except porn roleplay) and the end of flesh means God is never incarnate and cannot manifest anywhere.

yo I know you're all talkin about some kinda high-concept stuff but should I try grindr even though I'm a virgin in a kinda shitty midwest town?

>>22
No. Dating apps are worse than brothels and grinder is just an AIDS dispensing machine that gets a free pass because of the amount of corporate money thrown into it.

>>23
grindr* tbh it doesnt matter if you're a fag or not, if you're regularly having unprotected sex with strangers you should absolutely be getting tested regularly and take PrEP to prevent HIV.

>>22
idk, do you want to be a fag slut?

jokes aside, as a fag slut myself, i will describe what the experience is like and share some advice on how to go about it if you're interested. it kinda sucks, i find grindr frustrating but i always enjoy myself when i finally meet up with the man or trans of the night. i'm very glad to have used it in the past, i previously used it a lot more. i met a few real good people on there! because of this, i rarely log on anymore, my FWBs keep me satisfied. sometimes they're busy and i'm excessively horny, so then i have to turn to the beast.

expect most guys you encounter to be interested in seemingly nothing but sex. i suppose it may not be true if you count drugs as an interest but like... idk. drugs can be cool but definitely avoid any you havent researched. when i say "most guys" i'm including crossdressers and sissies but i'm not includding trans women, and thank god a good number of trans women do use grindr.

expect to be asked for pictures since that's how it works on the app (and i dont just mean your face). expect people to just be able to host or just be able to travel, in my experience a guy has to be really into you for him to want to pick you up and fuck you anywhere aside from his car or maybe a park at night or something. though, if you're young enough that may be the case.

more important than anything be clear and upfront about what you want (anal, bj, jo buddies? giving, receiving, mutual? friendship, a relationship, drugs, cuddling?), and ask whoever you're hooking up with what they want. if these things line up, sort out where you're fucking and how you're getting there or prepare your place for the occasion and at the point you're actually meeting someone just have fun and be yourself. ultimately, you don't have to swallow but i've never met someone who doesnt. have fun.

i still dont know why people use dating apps. if it was all to have sex then dating apps might actually be a failed attempt to make sex open. every time i hear about dating apps its something like: "omg look wo if found there lol" and then we proceed to make fun of the person who has an account there. this is the epitome of anecdotal but idk what your experiences are.

>>24

regularly and take PrEP to prevent HIV.

You people are bloodsuckers. Leeching off the world’s medical supplies while millions of people who need these meds die every year just so you can live it up. You filthy scum.

>>25
Commodification. It’s become less acceptable to date your colleagues or coworkers etc. There’s a push to move socializing and sex onto commodified channels of communication. Neoliberalization of human contact. People will use such apps because soon they have no other choice.

>>26
confused me a bit, but then i remembered that chuds can't read and so it would be absurd to expect you to know what PrEP is. awesome bait

What I don't understand personally is the way one can live such a lifestyle and not expect criticism. The way chud is wheeled out so confidently to defend such a socially destructive and morally empty lifestyle that's pretty much indefensible according to any ethical tradition that isn't late post-industrial capitalism. People who use dating apps and sleep around with random strangers are selfish and depressing and you have destroyed society.

i am thankful of having my accomplishments recognized & it delights me to imagine that my joy could becomeS your pain.

>>27
Listen to me, oh Muses,
Listen to me, oh hetaerae,
Listen to me, oh ye unbemused.

Even before Zeus in majesty lie,
from its joys is the earth abused,
ever since Man planted wheat and rye,
even before then also, knew motherdom.

Of the community of woman dreamed
a man named Pláton; to free Man from
the tyranny of alliance and allegiance.
What once was individual martyrdom
was made collective -- this we now vision.

And from this original sin, committed
by none in particular, through the
arraying of the times and the things,
the great lie comes crashing down.
Catastrophe.

The world arrays itself in two great
sides, and like the wheels of a barrow
they keep each side turning until the
cadaver is finally sunk into the ground.

Chuds, they cry! Degenerates, they shudder.
The community of women is upon us!
And now motherdom and martyrdom are even
more loudly proclaimed by the priest and rabbi!

For now the suffering of women finally
has been detached from the rule of men,
and now women are free to dictate their
own suffering, and the terms of their
prostitution.

Just like the labourer may dictate the
terms of his own slavery on himself.

Yet to they decry their slavery?
Do they decry their prostitution?
Do they decry their debasement that
is more assured than their daily bread?
They've been taught to love it.

Yeah, the community of women is upon us,
now she is property of the integrality
of society! Ashame yourself of your jealousy!
They tell us! Ashame yourself!

You may not:
Seize that person in a mass,
extract them from a group,
in which they participates.

You have separated society from its
rightful property, its lawful profit.

It is fine, however,
for you proles to reproduce,
to divert and expend yourselves
in inanities and pre-arranged protocol.
To jump from hump to hump and meaningless
encounter from meaningless encounter,
and call that "free association".

"Sex is TCP/IP, not UDP."
"Love is Free."
"Love is Love"
"Love is Beautiful"
Bah. The copula connects all things together.

They love negative freedom so much
that they'll soon also free themselves
from living.

Everyone who disagrees with me must be a chud

You are just as mentally feeble as the average /p*l/tard who thinks in shibboleths and internet memes

you should transition

>>31
Why do you self censor yourself?

Sex is gay

i love gays, and sex, but get neither, loose loose!.