>>23 grindr* tbh it doesnt matter if you're a fag or not, if you're regularly having unprotected sex with strangers you should absolutely be getting tested regularly and take PrEP to prevent HIV.
jokes aside, as a fag slut myself, i will describe what the experience is like and share some advice on how to go about it if you're interested. it kinda sucks, i find grindr frustrating but i always enjoy myself when i finally meet up with the man or trans of the night. i'm very glad to have used it in the past, i previously used it a lot more. i met a few real good people on there! because of this, i rarely log on anymore, my FWBs keep me satisfied. sometimes they're busy and i'm excessively horny, so then i have to turn to the beast.
expect most guys you encounter to be interested in seemingly nothing but sex. i suppose it may not be true if you count drugs as an interest but like... idk. drugs can be cool but definitely avoid any you havent researched. when i say "most guys" i'm including crossdressers and sissies but i'm not includding trans women, and thank god a good number of trans women do use grindr.
expect to be asked for pictures since that's how it works on the app (and i dont just mean your face). expect people to just be able to host or just be able to travel, in my experience a guy has to be really into you for him to want to pick you up and fuck you anywhere aside from his car or maybe a park at night or something. though, if you're young enough that may be the case.
more important than anything be clear and upfront about what you want (anal, bj, jo buddies? giving, receiving, mutual? friendship, a relationship, drugs, cuddling?), and ask whoever you're hooking up with what they want. if these things line up, sort out where you're fucking and how you're getting there or prepare your place for the occasion and at the point you're actually meeting someone just have fun and be yourself. ultimately, you don't have to swallow but i've never met someone who doesnt. have fun.
grindr* tbh it doesnt matter if you're a fag or not, if you're regularly having unprotected sex with strangers you should absolutely be getting tested regularly and take PrEP to prevent HIV.
>>22
idk, do you want to be a fag slut?
jokes aside, as a fag slut myself, i will describe what the experience is like and share some advice on how to go about it if you're interested. it kinda sucks, i find grindr frustrating but i always enjoy myself when i finally meet up with the man or trans of the night. i'm very glad to have used it in the past, i previously used it a lot more. i met a few real good people on there! because of this, i rarely log on anymore, my FWBs keep me satisfied. sometimes they're busy and i'm excessively horny, so then i have to turn to the beast.
expect most guys you encounter to be interested in seemingly nothing but sex. i suppose it may not be true if you count drugs as an interest but like... idk. drugs can be cool but definitely avoid any you havent researched. when i say "most guys" i'm including crossdressers and sissies but i'm not includding trans women, and thank god a good number of trans women do use grindr.
expect to be asked for pictures since that's how it works on the app (and i dont just mean your face). expect people to just be able to host or just be able to travel, in my experience a guy has to be really into you for him to want to pick you up and fuck you anywhere aside from his car or maybe a park at night or something. though, if you're young enough that may be the case.
more important than anything be clear and upfront about what you want (anal, bj, jo buddies? giving, receiving, mutual? friendship, a relationship, drugs, cuddling?), and ask whoever you're hooking up with what they want. if these things line up, sort out where you're fucking and how you're getting there or prepare your place for the occasion and at the point you're actually meeting someone just have fun and be yourself. ultimately, you don't have to swallow but i've never met someone who doesnt. have fun.