>>10 just don't call yourself anything. Leave data fields empty. When pressed, tell people to stop being weird. Ask them why they care so much. Just don't play, because it's fundamentally not your problem. They're the ones forcing attention. They're the ones shining the spotlight. Being victimized by attention is not the same as seeking it, and at the cost of bearing a little more of it, you can make that clear by holding up the mirror. Doing so protects others from the spotlight. Just keep insisting that you just want to grill and that they're being weird, rude and fascist for asking.
just don't call yourself anything. Leave data fields empty. When pressed, tell people to stop being weird. Ask them why they care so much. Just don't play, because it's fundamentally not your problem. They're the ones forcing attention. They're the ones shining the spotlight. Being victimized by attention is not the same as seeking it, and at the cost of bearing a little more of it, you can make that clear by holding up the mirror. Doing so protects others from the spotlight. Just keep insisting that you just want to grill and that they're being weird, rude and fascist for asking.